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Admiration - from Words of Wisdom

 

- Wednesday Words of Wisdom -
Wednesday July 28th, 2010

Every Monday there will be a new "Monday Motivator" article written on the Music Motivation® blog.  Every Wednesday there will be a new "Wednesday Words of Wisdom" article written on the blog, and on every Friday, there will be a new "Friday Freebies" article written on the blog (and posted in the Music Motivation® Freebies library:  Music Motivation® FREE PDFs).



   

Here is the "Wednesday Words of Wisdom" for July 28th, 2010


Every Wednesday, I will take a word or a few words (many times a word used in music teaching, but more often motivating, inspiring, and  compelling words of action and empowerment, etc.) and create a "Words of Wisdom"  self talk paragraph or two to hopefully inspire and motivate you as you continue motivating others.  After a year or two, I will compile the "words of wisdom" into a book.  Here is the one for today:



Admiration
by Jerald M. Simon


 Admiration is demonstrating our respect for ourselves and others by acknowledging our best qualities.  Admiration is not easily acquired.  It often takes years to perfect and even longer to demonstrate.  It encompasses humility and is the backbone of appreciation.

I will learn everything I can about Admiration.

I will admire the accomplishments of others and I will learn from them how I can accomplish everything I desire.

I admire my strengths, yet I will learn to admire my weaknesses as well because when I do, I will understand why they are weaknesses and with this knowledge I will make them strengths.

I admire those who have succeeded and failed in life.  At times I have been successful, and at times I have failed.  I must not look at my failures with agony, but with admiration.  I overcame them and because of them I became and continually become a better person.

I admire myself at each stage of life.  I stay in the moment and focus on each experience because I know I must have admiration for each step of life.  I admire the past.  I admire the present.  I admire the future.  I will learn from all of them.

I admire the elderly and the youth.  I admire the rich and the poor, the free and the enslaved.  I admire my beliefs and I firmly believe in them.  I admit that I have not always admired everyone and everything they have done.  My admiration comes from respecting the best qualities in others and bringing out the greatness in others.  I want others to admire themselves and improve their situations in life accordingly.

I admire my spouse, my parents, my siblings, teachers, leaders, advisors, friends, acquaintances, neighbors, and even strangers because I believe in all of them.  I admire myself.



 

Have a 'Wonderful Wednesday'.  It is what you make it, so make it wonderful!

 

Written by Jerald M. Simon
Copyright © 2010 Music Motivation®
All Rights Reserved

 

Last Updated (Wednesday, 28 July 2010 18:12)

 

Our Habits create our Ability

 

- Monday Motivator -
Monday July 26th, 2010

Every Monday there will be a new "Monday Motivator" article written on the Music Motivation® blog.  Every Wednesday there will be a new "Wednesday Words of Wisdom" article written on the blog, and on every Friday, there will be a new "Friday Freebies" article written on the blog (and posted in the Music Motivation® Freebies library:  Music Motivation® FREE PDFs).




   

Here is the "Monday Motivator" for July 26th, 2010


I am fascinated with words.  It may sound weird, but I read dictionaries like hopeless romantics read novels.  I enjoy learning as much as I can about languages, meanings, derivatives, etc.  It completely fascinates me.

I thought I'd share a favorite word origin and relate it to piano teaching (and piano practicing).

The word 'ability' comes from the Latin noun 'habilitas'.  The adjective is 'habilis', or 'habile', which is from the verb 'habere' meaning 'habit'.  The original meaning is "to have, to hold".  The Merriam-Webster dictionary (we have to be careful when we talk about which Webster dictionary it is - there are a few and each is different) defines a habit as:

"1: DRESS, GARB 2: BEARING, CONDUCT 3: PHYSIQUE 4: mental makeup 5: a usual manner of behavior : CUSTOM: 6 : a behavior pattern acquired by frequent repetition 7 : ADDICTION 8 : mode of growth or occurrence (trees with a spreading)"

The same dictionary describes ability as:

"the quality of being able : POWER, SKILL", it also is used as a suffix to indicate a "capacity, fitness, or tendency to act or be acted on in a (specified) way (i.e. flammability).

I find it interesting that the words habit and ability, have the same origin.  Their roots connect the two together so that they are, in a sense, inseparably connected.  The one does not exist without the other.  They are two halves which make a whole.  The fascinating aspect of it all is how much the two work together in real life.

Our ability to do anything has a direct correlation with our habits.  We may have good habits, and we may have bad habits.  Our ability or inability to do anything in life depends on the habits we have formed.  These habits become customs because of our frequent repetition.  They can become an addiction, but I would love to be addicted to good habits over bad habits any day, so addiction, in this case, does not necessarily denote anything negative.


 

There is a reason why students must practice daily and form the habit of practicing.  Their ability to improve will never happen until they make it a conscious commitment.

People have often talked about how it takes at least 21 days to form a habit.  In reality, it is a myth.  It takes as long as it needs to take for the individual, because each of us progresses at different levels.  The 21 days is a good start, however, because it allows the person to be consistent for three straight weeks, hopefully, completely focused on what they hope to accomplish and being 100% dedicated to doing what it takes.

The 21 days idea stemmed from after one of the world wars.  When a soldier lost an arm, the doctors found it took up to 21 days for the individual to not automatically try to use the arm they didn't have.  It became known as the phantom arm because they thought they still had the use of both arms.

We can say that it generally will take 21 days to form a habit, but sadly, the same can be said about breaking bad habits.  It takes time to change the way we've been doing everything.  We basically need to reprogram our brains which, again, takes time and won't happen overnight.  We need to be careful in how we teach and what we teach.  Students can learn bad habits just as easily as they can learn good habits.  First and foremost, students must learn how to practice daily.  It must become second nature.

Malcolm Gladwell, in his book Outliers, suggests that 10,000 hours is the designated time to become masters or professionals.  Everything from Olympic Gold Medalists, to concert pianists, to professional artists, etc.  The list in limitless, but the timetable is the same.  10,000 hours must be spent doing something before they arrive at the level where they become true professionals.


I took the liberty to calculate the equivalents of what that means to music students.  Look at the lists below:





 

Practicing 30 Minutes Per Day -

how long it will take to reach 10,000 hours

 

30 Minutes per day multiplied by 365 days per year =182.5 hours

182.5 hours multiplied by 10 years = 1,825 hours

182.5 hours multiplied by 20 years = 3,650 hours

182.5 hours multiplied by 40 years = 7,300 hours

182.5 hours multiplied by 60 years = 10,950 hours




Practicing 1 Hour Per Day -

how long it will take to reach 10,000 hours

 

1 hour per day multiplied by 365 days per year = 365 hours

365 hours multiplied by 10 years = 3,650 hours

365 hours multiplied by 20 years = 7,300 hours

365 hours multiplied by 40 years = 14,600 hours

365 hours multiplied by 60 years = 21,900 hours




Practicing 2 Hour Per Day -

how long it will take to reach 10,000 hours

 

2 hours per day multiplied by 365 days per year = 730 hours

730 hours multiplied by 10 years = 7,300 hours

730 hours multiplied by 20 years = 14,600 hours

730 hours multiplied by 40 years = 29,200 hours

730 hours multiplied by 60 years = 43,800 hours



 

The numbers don't lie.  It's amazing when you think about it.  I tell students if they've been playing the piano for less than 2 years they can practice for 30 minutes per day.  Once they hit the two year mark, and possibly sooner, I encourage them to up their practicing time to 45 minutes - 1 hour.  From there we continue to up their practice time (and it can be difficult with scheduling, but it doesn't need to be one lump sum).  They can break the hour into two half hour time slots.  Break down two hours into two one hour time slots.  When students see this chart, they get an idea into what it takes to really improve in anything they do.

Their ability in anything they choose to do, will only increase and improve as they dedicate more of their time to doing it.  If they learn to love it, it won't be very difficult getting them to spend more time doing it.  They'll do it because they love to and want to.

 

 

Have a 'motivational Monday'.  It is what you make it, so make it marvelous!

 

Written by Jerald M. Simon
Copyright © 2010 Music Motivation®
All Rights Reserved

 

Last Updated (Wednesday, 28 July 2010 16:35)

 
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